first of all, let me clarify the title: i am not, have not, and will not be experiencing motherhood anytime soon. no. just, no. okay? now let's continue.
i'll start at the beginning.
in the spring of 2011, i applied to be an r.a. in my dorm here at belmont. i wanted the job more than i wanted to eat, sleep, or breathe (well... you get the picture). so i applied, went through three interviews, and...
i didn't get it. and honestly, i was upset. no one told me why i didn't get it; i only knew i wasn't good enough.
however, if God wants you to do something, He finds a way for you to do it.
last fall, as i was comfortably living in my dorm with two of my best friends below doing the job i ever so coveted, i was called by the resident director of my building. she was looking for another r.a. to start on january 1, 2012. obviously, i hopped on that like a cowboy in a bull-riding competition.
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my bestest friend, liz, (and jo the banjo) who got me through the semester in one piece |
now, i've never had very many close girl friends. i mean, i have, but... not really. i feel like every girl in my hometown says the same thing: "i hate girls." "girls are so stupid." "girls are mean." "i'd rather be friends with guys because blah blah blah." maybe that's true of the female population, but that's not my problem. i just don't know how to talk to a lot of girls. mostly, i say, "i like your shirt," and then that's it. being in nursing school, i'm constantly surrounded by women, but i don't have very many friends in my classes because i'm just so awkward.
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the wright staff. easily the most beautiful group of girls you've ever laid eyes on, yes? |
and now i'm in a position in which i live with thirty girls and i have to assist them with all sorts of emotional, academic, relationship, and spiritual issues. why did i want this job again? thankfully, i had my beautiful best friend, liz, right down the hall, and the other r.a. staff quickly became some of my favorite people, so i always had help whenever i needed it.
and my residents (from my floor section and the few that i adopted). geez, where do i begin? they are the best group of ladies you can imagine. i was certainly blessed to have such a wonderful group of ladies. each of them are so unique and a pleasure to be around. fellas, if any of you are looking for a future wife, i have plenty of options for you: crafters, runners, journalers, singer/songwriters, painters, mathematicians, long boarders, actresses, you name it. i cannot express into words how much they have impacted my life. an r.a. is supposed to take care of his/her residents, but in my case it was the other way around. they always seemed to notice when i was a little out of it, when i was a smidge sad, or when i just needed space throughout this roller coaster of a semester. i'm not sure if i am allowed to call my residents my friends, but since a majority of them have already checked out i'm just going to say it: MY RESIDENTS ARE MY FRIENDS!!! i'm ever so thankful for the birthday dinners, craft nights, dance parties, random mini bible studies, midnight OC marathons (and getting in trouble every night after i left because we sang Phantom Planet's "California" too loudly), lounging in my fort with me, and letters ya'll secretly slid under my door. if any of ya'll are reading this, i love each and every one of you with my whole heart, and you'll always be my first litter of lovelies. thank you for such a great semester, and have a fantastic summer (and don't die).
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| double birthday dinner at outback steakhouse |
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| painting night |
now that the sappy post is over, stay tuned for the next one. its all about my greatest adventure yet: skydiving. and also about recent crafted stuff and my move home, which is in five days (woot woot!). until then,
peace. love. and apple sauce.
morgan the nana